Write yourself a letter from someone with whom you are having "trouble." This is an imaginary letter, them to you.
In this letter, say exactly what you would want them to say/ write to you.
See if this doesn't uncover amazing possibilities you might never have considered.
THINKING
Think about someone you know, and think about two or three or more things, activities, that they really "like."
Think about how this give interesting clues about what they are really "like."
EMOTIONAL
Recall someone who you like. Think of three traits of theirs. See if you can find those traits, in whatever amount, in yourself.
Recall someone with whom you have "issues." Think of three traits in them you "don't like." See if you can find those traits, in whatever amount, in yourself.
MOVING AND LEARNING
Sit at the front edge of your chair. Round your back, which means to kind of slump, let your head go forward, your weight shift on your pelvis, and your belly come in.
Stay slumped and just hang up for awhile.
Then "unslump" and arch your back, raise your head, push your belly a bit forward, rock your pelvis a little forward.
Stay there a while.
Then easily and sweetly go back and forth.
Then, rest, and feel yourself.
If you feel adventurous, let your eyes go the way they wouldn't "naturally go."
Which is to say, as you slump/ round and lower your head, let/ move your eyes up, as if looking at your forehead.
When you arch and bring your belly forward and look up, let/ move your eyes down, as if to look at your chin.
Do this slowly and easily until you can follow your breathing and be "relaxed" as you do this.
Rest.
Then do it again, rounding and arching with awareness of your eyes and letting your eyes cooperate with and lead the movement of your head.
I've had a full life of love and learning and laughter.
The love of my life appeared on my mother and son's birthday, March 24, in 2015.
On March 5, 2016 we were married.
We are training in Co-Active coaching. Look it up. It's trained the most people in the world and is the most honoring of the client.
In Co-Active coaching we honor your need to go within, discover your strengths and values and resources and become even more amazing. No advice: just deep, deep, deep listening
In the past I've learned from and loved: Being Present, the Gurdjieff work, the work of Byron Katie (60 days with her), the Feldenkrais Method® & the Anat Baniel Method,
and Energy for Success, a 5000 year old system
Most of all, love has guided and blessed me. You can see it in the pictures.
If you want more love, more presence, more happiness, more success of a delighted and present nature, contact me.
And enjoy the blog, no matter what.
Cheers,
Chris